Integrity Series: Don’t Defer Blame
Friday, July 21st, 2006This post is a continuation of the Integrity Series, which is a series of posts that stemmed from a few things I think are crucial to anyone wanting to maintain a healthy trustworthy standing with their peers, managers, and subordinates. This particular post follows up on a post on how to Avoid Taking Undeserved Credit.
What I’d like to elaborate on concerns something nobody likes to really think about. What happens when things go horribly wrong? Well, when shit happens…there’s no point in polishing a terd. Someone has to shovel it up and get rid of it while the company has to figure out how to still end up with a jewel. (Or just a pretty rock will do. Some of us will take what we can get when things aren’t as they should be.) Regardless of what went wrong, if you were involved in any way with the problems…the best thing to do is to just suck it up and take what comes. The rest of the post will concentrate mostly on the what-to-do and what-not-to-do action items you should remember if ever caught up with an awry situation.
Take responsibility
Be as informed as possible. If you’re caught in the middle of a bad situation, looking stupid is about the last thing you want to happen. Collect as much information as possible on why things went wrong, the source of the problem didn’t just happen out of thin air. Even if you weren’t expecting something and didn’t account for it, do your homework and find out as much information as you can as fast as you can so that when you’re in the room trying to explain what happens…you at least look and sound intelligent enough to be speaking on the subject.
You most certainly don’t want to get into a meeting to talk about this and not be able to defend facts just because you’re unaware. Even if you aren’t to blame, looking unprepared is just as bad as being guilty because you didn’t help prevent it by being prepared in the first place.
Be honest. If you’ve got your facts straight, what have you got to hide anyway? If the problem was your fault, at least you have a fighting chance at saving yourself by explaining what most likely went wrong and having evidence for it. On the contrary, if you try to lie your way out of it…and get caught…you’re just an idiot and probably deserve whatever comes your way.
Don’t blame anyone else
Don’t mention names. This is probably the most difficult thing to do, but unless directly asked for a name just don’t throw them out there. Marching into your boss’ office and blaming the entire thing on someone else can be just as bad for you as it might seem good depending on the situation.
1. Pointing the finger shows cowardice, irresponsibility, weakness.
2. Burning bridges may gain you a short term way to save face, but sometimes bridges don’t get rebuilt. You may not have the support of your peers in the future.
3. By not blaming others, you show that you are a strong team player willing to take responsibility for your actions and everyone on the team…especially if you weren’t really involved to the point of deserving blame.
Keep it to simple facts. Don’t let any biased opinions creep into the discussion just because you’re angry or flustered. Stick to what’s fact, and let the evidence take care of itself when dissecting a problem.
Have a plan of action ready
Now what? If you messed up, you better be ready to fix it. Being prepared is as good as you can do at this point. If you just shrug the entire thing off, your company may consider you an unnecessary expense. Who wants to hire someone who just messes stuff up and won’t even try to make things right? I sure wouldn’t. If I screw up, you better believe I’m in there pulling double-time until I make it right. Having other people dependent on me to do my part is pressure enough. Forcing teammates to dive in and bail you out all the time just sucks and makes you look incapable.
Regardless of whether you were really to blame or not, be ready to assist in making things right. The only people that are remembered more than screw-ups, are the people that can fix things. If one of your teammates royally goofs up their component and you’re reliant on it being successful, roll those sleeves up and get your hands dirty in solving the problem. You’ll gain so much more respect as a team player and key versitile resource. Just being able to help with brainstorming ideas and fresh perspectives is sometimes enough to push a group effort over the edge to a successful path.
No plan? Find someone who can make one. I don’t care if you’re just some new grunt right out of college, if you can’t make a plan you better find someone who can and be proactive enough to get something going or you could be putting your job on the line as well as your reputation.
Everyone has to learn the hard way, and you’ll probably get some leniency the first few times. Don’t even let it come to that. Being proactive is about the best thing you can do in a situation unless your directed to focus your attention elsewhere while the disaster recovery crew takes over.
Going forward
Obviously being in this scenario isn’t fun. But knowing at least where to start and what direction to head should give a good advantage over the deer-in-headlights-type people in the end. Be informed, hold your head high, and have confidence that you did everything you could…and are going to do everything you can to make things right.
Most important of all, learn from your mistakes AND the mistakes of others. Your experience is gold for your career. If you ignore things that have happened to you and everyone around you, you may as well be a fresh college graduate your entire life. If you plan on moving up in the world, make sure you pay attention to how things happen around you.
What do you do in situations that just don’t go right? How do you react to make sure things can smooth out over time? (Well, besides starting a new job-hunt
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Tags: integrity, blame, accountability, mistakes, planning
Something I learned a long time ago from my uncle, who was an executive for fortune 500 companies for years, was that “making it” in a corporate environment sometimes meant dealing with people who learned the art of taking credit and deferring blame. I was fascinated by this while thinking that it just couldn’t be that easy…until I worked for one of the largest companies in the world for a few years.
The kick in the tail here is, not everyone does this to intentionally gain more credit than they’re due…but it happens to work out that way sometimes. Saying things like “well, we’re working on that and hope to have it done by tomorrow” even though you really only are a stakeholder that signed some dotted line because you were invited to participate in discussions about some project can really make it look like you’re down in the trenches to some clueless executive.
Ok, this is just stupid. Anyone that flat out says “that piece I completed” for a component that was done by someone entirely different deserves whatever evil look they get from management when they’re called out on the lie. This is an extremely risky move on anyone’s part. I do not recommend lying as a tool to get credit for any work done to anyone. For those that don’t listen, I laugh at your stupidity and gladly stand in line for your paycheck next time I’m on the job hunt.